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To Manifest Your Desires You Have To BECOME the ‘Villain’
All your life, you’ve been told to be good.
To be kind. To be humble. To be selfless.
And while none of these are bad things… they might be the exact reason you’re stuck.
Let me explain…
Most people are too scared to be unapologetically themselves because they don’t want to be seen as cringe, weird, selfish, arrogant, or too much.
When we are truly ourselves, it’s impossible for everyone to like us—because everyone is different.
And we don’t like that.
I struggled with this for years, and I don’t claim to be completely free from these fears yet either.
They are deeply programmed into us from early childhood.
Think about it…
Most of the fears stopping you from excelling and taking your business to the next level are based on what other people might think.
And there’s more—it’s not just about fear, it’s about morality.
Most people believe that if we’re good—if we’re people-pleasers and “good” individuals—then logically, we deserve a better outcome, right?
So many of us received this programming as children.
If we’re good and put other people’s happiness before our own, we will be rewarded… right?
This is not the whole picture.
Here’s the truth:
Every person who has manifested massive success has, in some way, embraced their ‘villain arc.’
Not in the sense of being evil, but in the sense of not giving a f* what people think** and taking bold action—even if some perceive it as selfish.
Truly successful people break free from people-pleasing, reject limitations, and prioritize their own vision over other people’s opinions.
What It Means to Embrace Your Inner ‘Villain’
1. Stop Seeking Permission
If you’re waiting for everyone’s approval before you chase your goals, you’ll be waiting forever, my friend.
Don’t wait. Do it now.
The moment you stop caring what others think is the moment you start manifesting what you want—not what other people want.
2. Prioritize YOUR Desires
You’re not here to live your life based on what’s convenient or pleasing for others.
If putting yourself first makes you feel guilty, it’s because you were conditioned to believe self-sacrifice is noble.
Listen…
99% of the time, it’s just self-sabotage in disguise.
3. Be Willing to Be Misunderstood
Every person who has ever done something great has been judged, doubted, and hated.
People try to tear you down because they’re jealous or unhappy themselves. Hate is a sign you are making progress.
If you’re too scared to be “the bad guy” in someone else’s story, you’ll never be the hero in your own.
The Key? Controlled ‘Villainy’
You should still operate from a place of love and kindness in everything you do.
This isn’t about being cruel or manipulative.
It’s about taking radical ownership of your life and refusing to dim your light just to meet the expectations of others.
You don’t need to be bad—but you do need to be bold.
Start acting like the version of you who doesn’t hesitate, who doesn’t ask for permission, who takes what they want with confidence.
That’s when manifestation actually starts working.
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Talk soon,
Mason